Went to a couple places, met a few cool cats, but I'm maxed out on margaritas and tacos for the rest of the year. Gracias, no gracias.

San Antonio, TX

Los Angeles

Boris is the best

Richmond, Virginia

Woah, I'm going to Barbados

So, Barbados was pretty awesome. 

Beautiful beaches, cheep beer/rum, relaxation, friendly people, easy and cheap public transportation...what more could you ask for?  I definitely hope to go back one day.  I was a little worried about traveling with a same sex couple, but we didn't have any problems at all. Everyone seemed to be super accepting (of course, we are tourists and they want our money) but it was a beautiful country and a great trip (especially because we got "stuck" in paradise one extra day - thanks mother nature!).

Until my next trip, I will have to live vicariously through these pictures.

The Beer of Barbados

Maxwell Beach

Enterprise/Miami Beach, Oistins

Rockley/Accra Beach, Hastings

Dover Beach, St. Lawrence Gap

Food for Thought

Obesity in America is basically an epidemic, and poverty and obesity have a connection, without a doubt. Every day more and more people in low income areas are going to the hospital with problems due to obesity and diabetes. Moreover, many of these people are uninsured and are wracking up hospital bills that we as taxpayers, are ultimately going to have to pay.  Ever since Mayor Bloomberg proposed the supersize drink ban, the consumption of fast food has been the topic of many conversations. I have heard people (from all walks of life) make extremely unsettling comments; everything from calling people pigs, to insinuating they should know better, to insisting that people who eat fast food are lazy.

Today, I had fast food for the second time this year. I didn’t do it because I’m gluttonous and don’t care about my health. I did it because it’s fast and cheap, and I’m broke; the same reason many people eat fast food each day. Yes, there are gluttons that just don’t care and should know better, but you should never generalize. Many people that eat unhealthy and / or fast foods are doing so for cost reasons, especially those in low income areas.


Some of you won’t accept this excuse; you will argue that for the same price of a value meal at Wendy’s you can easily go to Trader Joe’s and pick up some whole food and whip up a quick meal (or even a “healthy” frozen meal for that matter), but let’s think about something for a second.

How many Trader Joe’s, Whole Foods, or even large supermarkets have you really seen in impoverished or low income areas? Now, how many Checkers or Burger Kings do you see in these types of areas?  Fast food chains prey upon low income areas. They know the demographics and they take advantage of them.  People in low income areas often do not have the resources (whether it be the money, the education, the stores) or sometimes even the time (ie; single parent working two jobs to support multiple children) to eat healthy, unfortunately. 

I live in an “urban town” and while McDonalds and White Castle aren’t popping up left and right, neither are specialty supermarkets like Whole Foods.  I cook as often as I can and I also make the effort to shop in specialty health food stores as well (closest one is about a 30 minute drive), but many people in low income areas do not have that option because….they don’t have cars.

While I do agree with Mayor Bloomberg’s supersize soda ban (but that is a whole different topic – it’s not about personal choice, it’s about the existence of supersize drinks in general), I’m not suggesting we should ban fast food in low income areas and I don't think we should force health food stores to open in low income areas; that is not what I am about. In addition, I am in no way saying that lifestyle and disregard for personal health is not a cause of obesity. There are many people that just don’t care about what they are doing to their bodies, and for some, obesity may be hereditary.  I just think that as Americans, we should think about ALL of the factors that are leading to obesity, before we assume everyone is a lazy, gluttonous pig. And undoubtedly, something has to give.

So I'll be sailing on out into Bermuda blue

I was lucky enough to spend another 4 days in Bermuda this month. As lovely as the island appears in these pictures, they truly don't it justice. It's just as much about the experience as it is the beauty. It truly is the closest to paradise I

have gotten so far.  

On our way down to the bus stop. Destination: Horseshoe Bay

The bus was taking its sweet time on this particular day.

Horseshoe Bay Beach, Southampton. How much more gorgeous can you get? 

St. George's after a storm

Tobacco Bay, St. George's

Maria frolicking with cows, typical

Port at St. George's

Stacy downtown St. George's

Port Royal Cove, Horseshoe Bay, Southampton

St. Catherine's Beach, St. George's

French Canada is the best Canada

I was lucky enough to spend a decent amount of time in the great city of Montréal this year. I just got back from a great 3 night stay and also spent a few days there this past April and September. I know I should be loyal to NYC, but there is just something about Montréal that keeps making me want to go back. 

Vieux Montréal

In April we stayed at an apartment we found through Airbnb. It came with a cat and her name was “Red”. She was sweet, classy and very French.  Le Meow.

Montréal Botanical Gardens

Is there any explantion as to why Robert Smith is there?

Down in Bermuda the Pale Blue Sea

I finally got around to uploading my pictures from Bermuda. Bermuda is a very interesting island. I didn’t find it to have much of its own culture. There isn’t a type of music native to the island, nor are there many foods or traditions unique to the island.

However, everything that Bermuda lacks in culture, it makes up for in beauty and tranquility. It’s as if the world stops around you as soon as you set foot on the island. All different hues of blue, green, and turquoise that you could imagine; not a billboard or high rise in sight; you won’t even find any fast food restaurants in Bermuda.

I wouldn’t go to Bermuda looking for a cultural experience, but it is the perfect place to go to if you want to unwind, sip on some rum, and enjoy the simplicity of nature and peace. I’d be there tomorrow if I could…

Horseshoe Bay Beach, Southampton

St. George's

Achile's Bay, St. George's

St. Catherine's Beach, St. George's